One thing I've learned recently is that Maddie listens to EVERYTHING. I now watch what I say in front of her. Whenever my friends and I get together it's so easy to talk about the difficult times with them since they also have a 3 year olds but I can't do that anymore. I knew that Maddie understood what was being said but I didn't think she paid much attention. Last week at my parents house she proved me wrong.
We were eating dinner and having a conversation. For some reason we were laughing at Caitlyn. The conversation went something like this.
Mom: This is just like when you guys were growing up. We were always laughing at the youngest member of the family (my brother).
Me: You mean you didn't laugh at me, I'm insulted.
Mom: Yes we did but it was behind your back.
I don't remember what else was said but I noticed Maddie was out of her chair and making a lot of noise. I tell her to sit back down and eat her dinner.
Maddie: But I was laughing behind your back. (she was standing behind me going Ha Ha Ha)
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Maddie walked into her bedroom where Jon and I were waiting to read books. She was hiding something behind her back.
Jon: Maddie, what's behind your back? (knowing it was probably a paci)
Maddie: I don't know.
Jon: Could it be something green?
Maddie: No, red.
Jon: Does it start with a Puh sound?
Maddie (as sweetly as possible): Puppy dog?
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Last night I dug the paci out from underneath her pillow. She had a fit and cried that she wants to be 2 again (when she could use pacis). She got over it and we started to read a book before bed. I didn't think she was actually using the paci because we check on her every night and it's not in her mouth. As I was tucking her in I turn the camera to face her. All week long she has been turning it to the wall.
Maddie: Why did you turn the camera?
Me: I just like it facing this way. (hoping to not give her too much information in case she didn't understand that I could see her) Why did you move the camera to the wall?
Maddie: Because I didn't want you to see me using the paci.
At least she was honest.